Dogs

Folks talk about

A boy and his dog

Well, in our home, it's

A girl and her dog 

And

A man and his bitch

LOL

Happy 

Love Our Lurkers 

Day!!

I know there are a couple of you who read

but don't comment.  

I did - for a while.  

• I didn't want to screw something up and let someone know who I was.
• I didn't want to say something that would be construed as "dumb".
• I didn't think I would have anything to add to the conversation.
• and on and on.

But here's the thing.  As a blogger now, I have to say that I appreciate EVERY comment.  Truly.  I really appreciate people taking a minute to let me know they're there…weather it's just to say hi or to give sage advice or funny snarky comments.  I do appreciate them all.

SO for those who don't know what to say here are some options…

KINKY:

• What's your favorite sex toy and why?
• What's your sexiest jewelry?
• What's your favorite erotic book?
• Where's the more memorable place you've had sex?

VANILLA:

• What's your favorite song right now?
• What's your favorite color?
• What's your favorite cookie?
• Where's your happiest place to travel?

PLEASE Comment and let me know you're lurking!

THANKS

Broken

We're kinda broken. 

Physically

Emotionally 

Sexually 

Broken. 

Sir has been sick

We are struggling with 

Stress

Grief

Stress

Issues with our home

Stress

Issues at work

Stress

Issues with our children

Stress

And looming largest

Grief

And we aren't able to connect sexually

At

All!!

Because he's been ill, 

we haven't kissed

Because of my emotional devastation,

we haven't had any kink

Hell we have hardly had any sex at all

And this isolation is adding to the stress. 

But we can't seem to reset. 

Tonight I asked to be spanked and in the middle - we had a mishap and then I burst into tears. 

It's feeling overwhelming and hopeless. 

I know it's not. 

This too shall pass. 

But damn!

I'm stressed 

And BROKEN!

Later

My world has kind of fallen apart. 

I will be missing for a bit. 

Hugs to you all.